I just really want to talk about this on my blog. I got an email from a girl recently who is lacking confidence and i thought to myself, she can;t be the only girl going through this, heck everyone goes through it. All i want you guys to remember is that you are all gorgeous in your own way. You might see super models and fashion models and get upset because they look 'hot' and 'sexy' but it is really just confidence. Forget about those skinny girls who put their faces on every morning (haha sorry i know its harsh but it will help your confidence). I believe getting upset about those things is normal but it should not be a long term thing to think about. You have to train yourself to think positively and enjoy who you are. If you aren't sure who you are yet, go out with some friends or a close friend or hang out with a family member you are close with and during that time you should naturally act like yourself because you are comfortable with them. Instead of being alone and thinking negatively about yourself try and express yourself. Go and buy a canvas board and paint something, go to your favourite store/place. You can't let yourself become trapped in a negative ball because you are not happy with yourself. It sucks too how sometimes we need change to become more confident. When i was younger i used to be so paranoid with the way i looked, my hair didn't feel nice, i used to just tie it in a pony tail. One day i decided that today was the day for change, i was freaking out because in my head i thought it wouldn't suit me or people are going to laugh at me. But i did it. Yes, it gave me confidence but it also taught me that sometimes change opens a door to change another thing about yourself with out it being such a big deal. I since then haven't been afraid to dye my hair different colours and style me hair differently. I guess what i am trying to say is you have to think to yourself, am i happy with how i look? If not it is really up to you to work out what you like and build off that. Try it even if it scares you, you like it so who cares. Do what you like. Do what you feel like, do what you think will give you confidence. Its these small steps that will make you a more confident person. It will take time but i do believe that everyone has something beautiful about themselves even if you don't see it someone else does. Negativity just gets in the way of you living a fun positive life. Don't let it ruin your life, you are a unique individual who deserves to feel confident. Do it for yourself, you deserve it.
I hope i made sense in this haha
I hope you have all been well and all have a beautiful day.
Love you guys heaps xoxo
Kristy :) :)
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